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How do I know I'm not alone??
I always feel alone. My friends come and go. When I have a real good friend all of a sudden its like , I did something wrong to make them hate me or not trust me or something. Sometimes I just think I'm better off not here. Since my dad died everything's been upside down , but that was 9 years ago .. I had a family but I dont anymore .. My ex bboyfriend used to be my bestfriend but he's changed too. I just feel so alone. What should I do? Stay this way? Believe people when they say they care? But in the end nobody cares. I just dont know anymore, someone help me please?? </3
14 year old female
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Hey,
So the first thing to remember is that you're not better off not here. Find a passion or pursue a talent and then you'll have something to work towards and prove thoses crappy friends who left you wrong.
Also, alot of teens feel like this. So why not turn your lonliness and anger at being left into energy and motivation to achieve something really great like an award or face a fear?
Also, people do care. I have the same issue as you, expect I guess the only differnce is that I'm a twin so we'e kinda only got each other and lots of casual come and go friends.
If I were you I'd start a fresh. To pull your self back up you need to reach your lowest point. Once you've got there things can only get better right?
My tips:
1) Find your talent or interest and advance in it, and achieve a goal, for example if your good at writing then aim to get published.
2) Get help from real counsellors to see if theres any underlying issues such as social anxiety
3)If it helps, forget the here and now and focus on the future. Plan how next term/semester you'll do things differently.
Good luck and feel free to inbox me if you feel like this again because I'll always have an open ear :)
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oh I am so sry about this. Your not alone the god always there with his humans and soon you will be alright or you can meet people online and then them face 2 face Also you can hav a new bf with ur same interest online
Good luck =) hope I helped ya
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i feel like this alot, especially lately. and welp.. it sucks. it's horrible knowing you have no one to trust. it's horrible that when you need a friend, no one seems to be there. But it makes you stronger, i mean you have no one but your still standing here doing everything on your own. that's an achievement most people can't handle. but people like us, we don't always end up alone. There are people that sense our strength and they will stick by us and still know we don't need them. And if those people haven't come yet or you haven't started to open your eyes to see them... it will happen. But in the end, no you are not alone. Because even though you may have no one NEAR you to trust... there is always someone out there who feels the same way as you. who feels... alone. so no you're not alone. not even a little bit. not even at all. and your dad believe it or not is probably watching every move you make, standing beside you every moment you need someone. Death doesn't stop a father's love.
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