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The condom came off! help me please!!

Question Posted Monday June 25 2012, 5:06 pm

Right yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time,he wasn't a virgin but I was and we did it and before we did I told him 'the condom's loose' then he didn't look and he said 'its fine that's how its ment to be,but it was actually half way down his penis ,but I just thought 'oh ok' cause I didn't know but in the end after we did it,the condom came off and he thought he had cumed,now I'm scared incase I get pregnant! I have told him if I have a baby he will be the one driving me to get an abortion and will be paying for everything! I know I've done bad but it has been done now and I can not change it,please help me

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adviceman49 answered Tuesday June 26 2012, 11:44 am:
JustJessOx is right. You still have time to take the plan B or morning after pill. They are the same thing just some people refer to them differently.

If you are over 14 you can't be refused and you should not be asked to many questions. The morning after pill is a high dose of Birth Control medication that should prevent a pregnancy.

Sperm is viable for a short time during which it seeks an egg. You are only fertile for a small window of time during your menstrual cycle. For most women this is around the 14th day of the cycle. It is not as easy to get pregnant as one may think all factors have to be in place. But it is possible so you must take precautions and he should know how to use a condom.

Purchase and take the morning after pill. If you are going to be sexually active and are over 14. Then you are covered under a federal law called HIPPA which gives you medical confidentiality with yur doctor for medical problems concerning you reproductive health, meanin no one can tell you parents what your visit was for or what you are being treated for. Because of this confidentiality you can go to your doctor or any womens clinic and seek birth control

Of course the best birth control is not to have sexual interourse at all. If you are going to have intercourse the you should protect yourself and be on sometype of birth control. Even so make sure your partner does use a condom as well.jus t some

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JustJessOx answered Monday June 25 2012, 6:09 pm:
Hey there,
Okay try to calm down. The more you stress the more anxiety you are going to bring upon yourself and that's not going to help. I know you are probably freaking out right now but you don't know for sure if you are pregnant or not.
The more you stress the later your period will be if it will even be late at all.
I would strongly suggest you get the morning after pill. Seeing as this happens yesterday you need to get it today or tomorrow! As it is best effective within the first 72hours. After that not so much.
I know its awkward and embarrassing having to go get it trust me I know I've been there and had to answer a bunch of embarrassing questions,but better to be safe than sorry right?
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f

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