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uh my bestfriend and my boyfriend?!
Okay so the guy im dating now is pretty awesome, but we have awkward conversations all the time and hes a boring texter weve been dating for three weeks now and all i hear is either eww cant believe you like him she dated him to,im thinking what the hell or im hearing im so glad I told him to start liking you if i never told him to like you,you guys wouldnt be together at first i didnt believe her but two nights ago i found a note beteen them sayding hes not over his ex and she isnt to happy were together either so on the note she says why dont ask angie out and he says oh i dont know if she likes me so ya its annoying me like ya i asked him before why does he like me he said he like me the year before ever since then a little and that he doesnt like being single and something else but i forgot. we already kissed three time too and ever since the first kiss he says i love you alot. is he like using me or something. matter of fact im not even sure i like him that way cus when i text him i dont get excited that much,but when i text these other guys i get all happy and blush like crazy and those guys i can actually talk with its not awkward at all. they also always say stuff like you and your boyfriend arent going to end out well and that they think im beautiful,they said those things before i dated my boyfriend so okay im asking should i dump him cus heck hes just dating me so he isnt single, honestly i dont care cus i like being single myself.also how do i stop the other guys from flirting with me, and to deal with my bestfriend saying that stuff????thanks so much-angie!!!!!!!!
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Okay first of all, you need to re-think you're choice of best friend.Second, either he has to step up his game, or you have to realize that there other people out there who can treat you better and say I love you when they actually mean it. Not just because it's the right thing to say at the moment, when 'I love you' is not right, an 'I like you' is never unwelcome. Be true and straight up about your feelings. If I were you, I'd drop him and keep single until I'm very sure about what I want. The fact that he dated your 'best friend' should have been enough for you to keep away. She may see its okay with her, but if you put yourself in her shoes, you'd understand her point a little better. It's usually the breaking point in a lot of friendships, and also (at least for me) Knowing that this guy has been with my best friend, kissed her, told her he loves her, it's truly a turn off. It makes me not like him. Anyways, best of luck [:
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Here's a funny story. Im in the middle of the same situation and my friends name who is dating my ex, is Angie!
Anyways. In my situation, my ex is only dating my friend to piss me off. So if I were you. I'd save yourself. Plus a guy who says he loves you 3 weeks in. Is saying it out of habit.
Ali.
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Hey there,
Okay this was a little hard to read but i'l give it a shot.
If I'm honest it really sounds like you are not that into your boyfriend. It seems you only like the IDEA of a relationship and not the actual relationship. Same goes for him,he even admitted he's only with you because he doesn't like being single. You should be in a relationship where you are really crazy about the guy and he WANTS to be with you and you him. Not just for convenience or for the sake of saying you are in a relationship. Don't feel pressured to be in a relationship because everyone else is.
It's especially obvious you aren't happy if you are finding comfort in compliments from other guys.
I think it's time you end it and move on. Be realistic here. You don't love him so what's the point?
If you are uncomfortable with other guys flirting with you tell them to tone it down a little.
You also need to talk to your bestfriend. Let her know her comments are hurtful and unwelcome.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f
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