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I dont know what to do :[
Im 19 and my boyfriend is turning 20 soon.. And He's been treating me like SHIT..,:( what kind of boyfriend would lock a girl up in his car without air? He didnt even bother to open the window who would do that?!! He never heared any complains about how he treats me. I tried to confront him but he never listen he only thinks what he feel.:(( the most painful part is he told me he never care what i feel., and he doesnt need me.,:( it hurts me so bad :,( i told him if am i ugly or not pretty enough? I did mu best to e his best gf :,( i never talked looked at other guys., i never told him
How im in pain right now :,(( </3
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Your boyfriend doesn't control your life and can't make you stay and put up with his crap, that would be you. It's very simple; you want to be happy? Break up with him and find someone that actually cares about you; I can tell you from experience that's what you need to do. I'm sure you care about him but you'll find out the hard way that it's not going to work out if you continue like this, Gl
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Your boyfriend does not deserve you. He has no right to treat you like crap, so don't just overlook it. I believe you should openly confront him with your feelings, and if he doesn't listen or doesn't improve after your talk, then it's time to break up with him.
It will be extremely painful for you, because you harbor such strong feelings for him, but in the long run it will pay off. I had to break up with my boyfriend, and it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I was really really sad afterwards, but it was worth it.
You deserve to be loved unconditionally, and you deserve the best man out there, who will treat you like a princess and bring out the uniqueness in you.
Don't ever settle for anything less! You come across as such a devoted and loving girlfriend, and this jerk doesn't deserve to be with you for another second!
Good luck, and I hope all works out for you :)
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Your option is to break up with him. It may be painful in the short-term, because you may love him. But there is someone better for you: someone who will love you and treat you with respect.
You have already tried to speak to him about it, and so there is obviously no reasoning with him.
You do not deserve to be in an abusive relationship. Although the prospect of breaking up with him may seem difficult, it's the best option for you in the long term. Would you rather be in a relationship with someone who does not love or respect you, or would you rather leave and find someone who appreciates you?
If he is abusive, be sure to call the local authorities. He may do the same (or worse) to someone else, and that would be painful, as you could have nipped his behaviour in the bud.
In short: Break up with him, please.
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