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this q is for braidon only please
im addicted to this site so ive read many of your advises.
my question is why are you so tense? did something happen in your life that made you so tense?
like when i asked for help cause i wanted to commite suicide you said and i quote 'you think life is hard now, it gets harder and harder while you grow'it gives me all the more reasons to commite suicide.
so why so tense?
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I know you asked for Braidon only though I would like to reinforce what he said. Life is a mixture of good and bad times. There are times the peoblems associated with the bad times seem so insurmountable that we feel like the weight of the world is upon us and we cannot crawl out from under. Age does not matter you can be 16 or 61, the problems will be different but the wight is the same.
Take it from me, someone who has suffered with the type of pain I believe you are feeling, their is away out from all this.
Unfortunatley I am working from a borrowed computer as mine is in the repair shop and I am without my normal resources. Still there is help that I can offer you. If you have spoken to your parents and they are reluctant to take you to the doctor you can do one of the following.
If you are actively suicidal, meaning you feel like killing yourslef. Then please pick up the phone and call 911. Tell the call taker how you are feeling. They will stay on the phone with you untill help arrives. Mom and dad cannot turn them away until they check for themselves that you are okay and that means taking you to a doctor. Help will be both police protect you and fire rescue to care for you.
Your other choice is if you are not sctively suicidal then go to the nearest ER or walk in clinic. You do not need parental permisson for this type of help. If your over 14 then treat you. If your under 14 they can care for you while they get the permission they need to treat you.
Part of treating you is finding out why you feel this way and helping you to correct whatever it is. I cannot think of any problem so grossly wrong that can't be corrected as long as you are honest with those treating you. Who by law cannot tell your parent anything that you talk about or are treated for by the doctors that is the law.
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What I meant when I said that was that life is never easy. Everyone goes through hard times. I did not mean that life gets worse, It's when we get older we have heavier burdens then we do when we are a child. I personally think you have too much to live for to think about giving up on yourself. One day you will be married, have a job maybe children. Life has many good things and sometimes we need to learn from the bad to be able to learn from the good. I think you should just be happy. Spend time with your friends, family and don't worry so much. Everything will be okay
Now to answer the second half of your question...
I am not tensed at all and no, nothing happened to me. I think many user on this site often mistaken or misunderstand my advice I give. I am straight to the point on what I said and sometimes it may sound bitchy but sometimes being honest with a person rather then beating around the bush is how you give better advice.
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