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I am So Confused About This Guy!!!!!!!!!!!!


Question Posted Saturday June 23 2012, 10:09 pm

I'm in middle school and I've liked this guy for a year and I just can't get over it because I don't understand him and he sends mixed signals. The thing is we're suppose to "hate" each other and I think he does or at least acts like it. I didn't want him to know I like him and my friends just RUINED IT. I didn't tell NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE that i like him. I can't i hate myself for even thinking about him (which i do often). The thing is he i think shows that he likes me and is trying to ignore the fact that he does. He always calls me names and who won't believe what kind of names. and ones he actually said "No offence but she's hotter than you" one i'm impressed that he gave a compliment and an insult at the same time you know. but my friends they just ruin everything for me. One of my friends told him i like i think she meant it as a joke because i can't lie so good and she said that because She had her cold hands on my back and i pushed her arm off. and this other time I told my friend to friend me with everyone in our class on Facebook. So she went on my account and she friend ed him i didn't know it till 3 days ago when i saw one of my friends post and his name and on the side said friends request sent. I was about to die. He started being paranoid and meaner. We sat almost next to each other in homeroom and we had fun insulting each other we even laughed and i usually hit him for making fun of me and i could tell he liked me until he caught me off guard and i hit his arm so hard the teacher noticed she made us switch sits and i was really upset i was gonna cry. Then he was moved out of our class to another because he was bad and he always somehow somewhere found a way to call me names and i liked the fact he still sort of communicated until this one day when we were suppose to go to homeroom i was helping this guy and he came over he started insulting me and he told the rest of his friend the nicknames he used to call me and i swore ever since then i would start to ignore him and it worked but i feel even worse because we don't communicate anyhow anymore.

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theadvicegal answered Tuesday June 26 2012, 10:29 am:
Woah. That is quite the story you got there. Kind of hard to follow. Regardless, guys will almost ALWAYS send mized signals. BUT sometimes you might think it's a mixed signal, but in reality the guy takes no interest in you.

I'm going to tell you that he might not be worth it. You might think he's playing around, when in actuality he might really mean it. I would just not pay attention to much to this whole situation. If it happens, it will and if it's not mean to, it won't. There are plenty of fish in the sea hun. And friends, they'll always do stuff like that. Be more careful with them.

Hope I could help and good luck :) xo

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