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did my ex just use me for an ego boost?
My (ex)boyfriend of 4 years called me the other night talking about how every relationship he gets into always reminds him of how much he misses me and our conversations. We talked for at least 4 hours that night about how good we were together and that no other relationship we have will ever compare. I'm not going to lie it made me happy to know he thought about it sometimes too. He asked me on a date this Friday and I said yes. I haven't heard from him since the morning after we talked which is not like him and I'm afraid to know... Did he just use me to make himself feel worthy? I know how it feels to have that moment of weakness and call your ex but our conversation was not like any we've had before. It was so sincere and afterwards it felt like we had just had an intense therapy session. I know I should just talk to him but if it's not the case I don't want my insecurities to ruin any potential we could have. But it sucks because right now I feel so used like he needed someone familiar to make him feel better and then sent me on my way... what do you think?
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There are many ques to this questions.
When was the "other" night? How long ago was this?
The main question here is to why he became your ex in the first place. If you feel used then well you may be right. It is really hard to give good advice as I don't really know exactly what happened.
Now from my personal point of view, If an ex becomes an ex I save myself the heart break and move on. As I've been told all too many times if it didn't work once it won't work again.
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