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should i tell my mom
my friend just got a new boyfriend and he lives close to me ,so my friend wants to come to my house and go for a walk so she can meet up with him. But my mom always tells me before we go on walks to not run into any boys (I'm 13). So if we do go on the walk and my mom figures out what happened my mom will probably not trust me any more. but if I tell her before the walk she could say anything (she could maybe allow us to go but i don't know). So do you think i should tell my mom or keep it a secret.
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It would be better if you told her. It's better than her finding out and never trusting you again. She might even let you go. If she doesn't, then tell your friend that your mom said no. She'll just have to meet up with her boyfriend some other way. Lying to your mom isn't worth it.
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Be honest with her. The consequenses of hiding this from your mother will be bad, and you won't feel good about yourself. Maybe you two can have a frank talk about the subject, and you will tell each other your reasoning. Your mother is probably worried about you, and doesn't want you to get hurt. If you don't agree with her, tell it to her in a nice way, and explain why you feel the way you feel. Good luck :)
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You should be honest with her mom next time you go. Let her know what you are doing so that if anything happens to you guys while you are out she will know what to do. I'm sure she would let you :). Goodluck.
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You shouldn't need to lie to your mum - it's not your boyfriend anyway, so you shouldn't get in trouble for your friend.
Tell your mum. She will probably want to know the ins and outs but that's only because she cares and wants to know you are safe.
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