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Is it a bad idea?
So there's this guy and I have had a crush on him all of my life and now he has a girlfriend. Is it a bad idea to tell a guy how you feel even if he has a girlfriend that he really likes?
Thank you to everyone in advance!!!
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Okay! I have been in this situation!! (many times)
People tell you to "move on" it's not always that simple especially if you've liked him "all of your life" as you say (again, been there)
SO, my advice for you is to wait it out. wait until him and his gf break up, then maybe wait a bit.. but not too long, so that he'll have another gf and tell him. (If you feel it is impossible to move on)
another option, tell him now.. but it's less likely to result in anything happening because he is with someone else, and may feel awkward, so nothing would happen in the future... BUT it may let you know how he feels towards you sooner.
and then there's always the third option, which I've never been able to master myself, so I can't tell you any advice on how to do it, but to move on and try and find someone else. OR at least if you go with the first option, maybe try and find a distraction, like a cute boy to like while you wait it out.
I can tell you more about my experience with this type of situation if you'd like. just inbox me! :)
(I'm 21, btw)
hope this helps you out!
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it's not really a bad thing but if you're going to tell him, you should be prepared to accept the answer he tells you. but if i were you, i wouldnt tell him right now. maybe just wait for the right time.
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Some people will feel differently, but I strongly agree with rainbowcherrie:
It's rude and selfish to force your feelings on someone who is not avlaible.
Your confession can only cause drama and embarrassment. Be respectful and move on.
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He has a girlfriend. He isn't available to you.
If you've had a crush on him all of your life and wanted to take things further then you should have explored that while he was still single.
Leave him alone and move on.
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