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She hasnt texted me more than two weeks Need Answers!!?
So I noticed this girl in my class that was pretty cute but I didn't talk to her at all for about 2 months. but as the semester went by I really didnt talk to to her until one day as I was heading to class she noticed me and asked me if I i was in her class and as we walked to class i made her laugh a couple of times than the next week i sat next to her and we talked more for the next couple of weeks I couldnt stop thinking about her and I couldnt wait to see her in class. I asked her if she wanted to exchange numbers and she gave it to me without hesitation but what was bizarre is that she only got my number i asked if she wanted mine but she said just text me and say its you. So I texted her and she texted right back and we talked but one day i asked her out to lunch she said that she couldn't because she had work so than a week later i asked her out to lunch and she said she couldn't because she had a final that day and would be out of town next week but she will let me know when shes back. So i text her again a week later asking her if she wanted to go out to lunch and go the movies after but she didnt text me back and its been more than a week so I dont know if i should wait for her to text me back or should I call or text her? Everytime i saw her in the campus she would smile and would be very happy to see me and one day i saw her going to her car and some dude was talking to her and when she saw me she completely ignored the guy talking to her and she smiled at me and said hey my friend who was with me that day whose good with relationships told me that he can tell that she likes me so i just wanted to add that and I want to text her but she said that she would let me know when shes back and she has the iphone 4 so when i texted her it was through imessage and said the text was delivered so she probably saw it. I texted her a couple of days ago and again she didnt text back the imessage was off though. but if anyone can help me that would be awesome!
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Don't text her again. You do not want to come off as insecure, and like you have nothing else to do. You've texted her countless times, am I right?! Well, you've done your part. Now, you got to wait on her to reply. And you're right, maybe her phone is messed up or there are other reasons you have not received a reply from her yet.
So, take it easy. Waiting is pretty hard at times, but that's what you have to do now. Wait for her to reply. While waiting, move on with your life - friends, school etc. Don't stop everything for her.
Lastly, trust her. She said she'll text you when she gets back.
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i wouldn't get myself to freaked out about this situation. it seems like this girl likes you (from ignoring the guy she was with) but i would lay off a bit. i wouldn't text her at all. you don't want to annoy her because when you annoy girls they tend to drift apart from you and forget about you. if she said she will text you then wait a bit. if a month or a long time passes by and she hasn't texted then you should text her and say something cute like "did you forget about me :( " or "hey beautiful" or something, but don't go to fast! become friends with her first, then ask her out! girls can be shy as well. she can be really busy doing something (that's what it seems like from not texting your friend as well) or she can be really really shy and doesnt want to mess anything up so she's waiting awhile.
sometimes the best way to get someone's attention is to stop giving them yours!
i hope i helped, if you have any questions let me know! :)
melissa.
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You may have gotten the wrong message, as it seems she probably only likes you as a friend. If she was interested in you, she would make time for you. Don't waste your time on her.
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Unless she specifically told you friend she likes you, it seems unlikely that she does. Girls usually don't like to text first, but if she was interested she would have accepted your offer for lunch or made a real effort to reschedule. Move on.
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You may be getting the wrong message, She could already be involved with someone. If she liked you she would make time to talk too you. Not everyone is big into texting but nobody goes two weeks leaving someone hanging unless they are not interested.
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Do yourself a huge favor let her go. Hate to sound callous, but I'm rooting for you. And I believe in love and all that, but if you really want to be with her get away from her as much as possible. Girls go through teasing phases in their lives, they lije to feel attractive and it had nothinf to do with you. She may have just saw you as a fling, but then changed her mind. I've gone through that at least 3 times in my life. If it's meant to be she will come running back to you. But if not you can't waste your time harping about her and miss out on a real girl that goes crazy for you.
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