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I need advice: I want to kill myself but whenever I look at his face, I cant do it.


Question Posted Friday May 18 2012, 9:27 am

Father:

My husband donbt love me anymore, I really want to leave from his life.
I am fed up with his anger, his hate his silence.

Help me
I have a son of 3 years, I want to kill myself but whenever I look at his face, I cant do it.

But I cant live such life .
Help me


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alexisgirlie answered Saturday May 19 2012, 12:23 am:
I would suggest that you leave your husband immediately. You are a wonderful person, and you deserve much better than him. It may seem very scary, and you may be afraid to leave him, but he is very harmful to your mental health, and you need to be strong at least for your son's sake. He needs you to be there for him! Please go get help for your depression. Why should you feel that you are living against your will? I remember when I was really suicidal, but decided that I had to live for my family's sake. Every day was murder, and whenever my family hurt me, I felt so betrayed, because I only lived for their sake! This is no way to live! You'll be surprised to hear that you can love your life with all your heart even after severe depression and strong suicidal feelings! Your life is really unbearable right now, and I understand your emotional state, because I've been there. I've held the mountain of pills in my hand, I've nearly jumped down 10 floors to the ground, I've held destructive items in my hand so many times, all those times I was alone. I realize today that alone it's not possible to survive, no matter how strong you are. You say that you can't live like this, and guess what, you shouldn't live like this! Fight for your rights! You deserve the best life you can have, and anyone who brings you down, does not deserve to be with you. It's very scary to leave your husband, especially if he's the one to provide for you. My dad was behaving similiar to your husband, and my mom was really afraid to leave him. Because of that, she and all her kids suffered unimaginably. One day she finally found the courage, and that's what led us all on the path to true healing. Take a look for yourself. When he lived with us, I was a broken, suicidal, severely depressed girl. Today I'm glowing. Do it for yourself. Do it for your son. You deserve the right to be happy, and you light up this world. With the right treatment, you'll have a new lease on life, and be able to be a stronger and better mommy to your son! I know that you won't disappoint him! Good luck :)

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mercury answered Saturday May 19 2012, 12:02 am:
Come on!!He's not worth it!It's your little angel who actually cares from now on!So cheer up and move on wiith your life,along with your son of course,anybody else will come one day,but let things flow,let life flow and don't get desperate in the process,these things are proves for you to overcome so think that you are gonna make it!There's a whole world in front of you waiting for you to take advantage of it;)YOU worth it!!!

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