my boyfriend and I are not on talking terms what should I do
Question Posted Thursday May 10 2012, 4:34 pm
My boyfriend and i had a huge quarrel and we haven't said a word to each other since then.. Its been three days now and he hasn't called.. I sent him 3 messages and his not replying his been giving me the silent treatment since what can I do somebody pls tell me what to say to him I don't want to loose my boyfriend
Xui answered Thursday May 10 2012, 9:16 pm: Have you tried calling him and maybe leaving him a message telling him you want to talk about it?
If your boyfriend doesn't want to return your call and discuss the issue then I would think after awhile maybe he doesn't care much about the relationship. In order for relationships to work there has to be communication. What was the arguement about? There is a bit lack of detail...
I think your boyfriend is being very immature ad handling this poorly. I also think that you should of tried a little harder then a text message. Again, If he refuses to fix the issue then maybe his silent treatment is also trying to proove a point that he no longer cares. Either or its immature either way
I suggest leaving a message maybe something like this
"I am calling to check in I haven't heard from you and I wanted to aplogize about ____ I was hoping we could sit down and talk about it and try to resolve the issue. If you want to talk you can call me. If I do not hear from you by tomorrow I will assume we parted ways" [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
DangerNerd answered Thursday May 10 2012, 6:45 pm: Hi there, you asked this twice. Here is the other one which will get answers:
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