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My girlfriend is acting like we don't go out. what should I do?
Female, 16
Okay, first off I'm a lesbian. And my girlfriend is bisexual. We've been off and on for about a year. She flirts with guys a lot and that didn't really bother me at all until a guy came up to me and asked "so, who broke up with who?" i didn't know what to say. I really need some help. I dont even know those guys. I just feel so useless... like i'll never be good enough. Any advice? Please.
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You're hurt and it's understandable. I think what you need to do is walk away from this situation and move on. Don't put yourself down because the relationship didn't work. You shouldn't feel useless or like you're not good enough because you are good enough and you do deserve to be with someone who is going to treat you right. Clearly this girl hurts you so why go back to her? I understand you love her, but think about it what would you tell your best friend if she or he was going through the same thing? You can grieve and be upset you have the right to be. Think about what you can take from this relationship and move on and start dating. Confidence is the key!
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If she is acting like you guys aren't going out, maybe that's a sign that she isn't interested in the relationship anymore. If I were you, I would talk to her, and tell how I feel, and how I am interpreting her actions. Just be straight up with her. If you guys break up it just means you're one heartbreak closer to finding the person you really do belong with.
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