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What is more Embarrassing ?
So i am 22 year old girl. Here are two stories. which are recently have with me. The First one when i am at my house. I was in my period time.That was the third day of my period. It was the third day of my period. I was at home. i messy the Mattress at last night. And today my father is here, and he came to my bad and slept here at my bad. and he felt some wet, he called my mom, and there is a red stain on my father shirt. he told me nothing. But my mom little shouted on me. two of our maids my cousin sis my mom dad all know about my that Locomotion. It was totally embarrassing. I cried a lot. And i felt so much bad why it is happened with me.
The second one at my collage. There is annual function at my collage. i participated in fashion show. i was walking at ramp. I don't know what happened with me. My top off in front of whole the public. I was topless for and instance. There is Cameras also. I felt chocked for two three minutes . And after that i walked again. And after that when came to the dressing room. i cried a lot.
These are the two incidence which make me cry always. I don't wanna live more. i just feeling yak. Don't wanna study. Don't wanna go any where.even don't wanna live I am thinking why it is happened with. No one people of mine age undergo in this stupid cases. i m not a child i m 22.
my question is that what is more embarrassing.
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It's NOT about which is more embarrassing. There's no clear cut answer as it's subjective. You simply won't find one. What this really is about is trauma associated with it that you never got over. That's NOT normal nor right.
What you have to do is realize that it happened in the past and that you can't change it and wasn't your fault. Shit happens. It just does--to all of us. When you get low because of thinking of it recognize that every last person has had moments like this and laugh it off.
In the case of menstruation you better believe you're not the only one. Yes, it was awkward but it wasn't the end of the world. The world kept going afterward and same deal with the top--look at Janet Jackson. Didn't bother her much.
The problem is you're taking it too seriously. You can't change the past but you do have the choice to learn from it, move on and in the case of he first story exercise precaution so it never happens.
To be so affected by it all these years later isn't right. It's an obsession that if you spoke to a professional they would help you chuck. This is all small stuff that happened long ago that you shouldn't cry over now. Believe me whether you're 2 or 22 there's people out there your age that have far more embarrassing shit to deal with than you could think they would. My advice: relax about it and move on.
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What's more embarrising is being topless because your parents and family understand your situation and consequences while others not much .... Well i hope i answered your question and try not quit on your life and always be optimistic ... Gd luck xD
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