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how can i show my wife i made the changes she always wanted
for 7 years me 7 my wife have each done things to hurt each other.. we met in colorado & she was married @ the time. she left me & i would come home from work to note on the table talking about her confusion. this went on for about 2 weeks before i came back to north carolina, so i get back home & she has called my family members looking for me. so my grandma found me & said i should go back & i did.. it wansnt $ days after getting back she left again.. i stayed & waited for her to come back.. she has kids which are not mine.. so we moved on past that & it has been rocky, we have had good times but alot of bad times. i was very verbally abusive to her & just did whatever i wanted to do with no regard of how she felt. last december the fighting came to a head & i had to leave.. my wife is a baptized jehovah witness who has recently been reinstated & she wanted me to check it out & i did.. it has really had a positive impact on my life & i now know how to be a loving husband & father but she has been hurt by me to the point she doesnt want to see the actions of what it has done to me... please help!!!!
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Okay, I have 4 things to say to this
1.) Forget the past, you cant go back and make a new beginning but you can start now and make a new ending. What you did to eachother is done, over, their just scars to replace them.
2.) In order to prove you've changed your disapproved actions you have to show you have by doing what you've changed the right way.
3.) If things don't work out, please move on, I Know it may be hard.
4.) You were horrible to eachother so don't expect it to automaticaly just change, cause no matter what it won't be the same.
Hope I helped. Sorry, for your troubles
Xoxo
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