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I'm going to have sex for the first time ..
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years now. He's never rushed me into things and we both want to have sex. I wanna make sure I know what I'm doing soo I don;t look stupid (by the way I don't know much. Can I get any advice soo I can kinda chill out?? Also, I want to know what I can do AFTER we have sex soo it won't be an awkward situation??? Anything would be great (:
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
I found the website listed below sometime ago when answering a question for another young lady. I would suggest you visit it before you have sex.
You should be using birth control to avoid pregnancy. If you are using a birth control pill you should be on it for at least 30 days before having sex for the best protection. Your partner should also wear a condom. Not just to prevent pregnancy but condoms while not protecting you from all STDs do prevent the transmission of a good many STDs.
Even if your boyfriend is more experienced then you I suggest you both review the website I have listed below. One of the most important things it will point out is you find a comfortable and safe and secure place where you can take your time and not be intruded upon.
I also hope you are old enough to have adult sexual relations for even though you may take adequate protections against pregnancy there is still a chance. If you are still in high school I would strongly suggest waiting until you graduate.
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just try to be relaxed. since you been together for awhile, i'm sure he will be respectful and take his time and not rush you. he should respect you during it. once it happens im sure you will feel more relaxed about it and hopefully enjoy it, although first time usually hurts, just don't rush it. and afterwords just relax and lay by him. talk about other things and don't focus too much on what happened. have fun and relax. =]
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I'm not sure if your boyfriend is a virgin too? But if he is, neither of you will really know what your doing and he will be just as nervous as you.
You've been with this guy for 2 years though. You know him pretty well and he isn't going to judge you. Sex is pretty easy and it takes time to know what you like. Just relax and don't worry everyone gets nervous their first time.
As for after, cuddling is always the best. After I have sex, I love taking a nap with my boyfriend and just enjoy being in his arms. You'll be fine though! :]
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