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Why do I f*** up having friendships with pretty much everyone I meet?
It's like we first meet and they're excited and it's easy for me to be comfortable around them, and then we drift. I suck at keeping friends and I literally have no friends to hang out with and I'm about to graduate high school and I literally haven't even hung out with a friend from school in like 2 years. whats wrong with me dear god. and all i'm left with are people i dont really get along with who are not even in my grade instead of the people i once got along better with, in my actual grade but i just f*** up everything and it's just all f***Ed upand idk why i cant have a proper friend correctly, apart from on the internet. its so frustrating, i'm going to have to blackout most of my adolescence cause it's nothing i'll look back on fondly and it's all my fault
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
My best advice is to realize that college is a NEW SLATE, and everyones looking to make friends. You should analyze your behaviors that turn people off, and think about the person you could want to be. Practice being more charismatic/flirty/confident, such as with waitors at restaurants. Then, use that practice to make friends with ppl at college. Everyone loves a confidant, fun person.
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This sounds more like a rant than a question lol but here's my advice:
Analyze exactly what you're doing. Don't blame God or even yourself. You need to watch what you do/say/act like towards them. If it's something that people usually hate or get annoyed by, then stop. You might have a major social problem if this really does happen with EVERY friend. You need to, like I said, monitor yourself and try to figure it out. I font really have much details so I can't really specify on the things hat make people drift, but I'm being as genaric as possible.
Good luck and I hope I helped!!!
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