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Boys and things: can friends with benefits turn into a relationship?
Im 16 and female, A few months ago I split with my boyfriend of 4 months. He had a reputation but he was my first love and I lost my viginity to him and we were really happy, we had issues but what couple doesnt and he could be a prick at times but still we were okay. Then one day we split over something so stupid but it really hurt me. I wanted us to work again although us splitting up was a mutual decision. I asked for us to try again but he refused and I moved on and got over him. Eventually he asked for me back and said he missed me, we got back on it and starting having sex again. But it felt wrong and he wasn't being serious so I dropped it and gave him a chance friends or lovers and he picked friends. Then a few weeks later he comes asking to be friends with benefits and do it one last time, I was over him and trying to get with other guys, but the other guy I wanted to meet up with always left me standing waiting for me to text him to meet up when we'd made arrangements so I'm still talking to him. I felt distressed and agrred to be friends with benefits but I want a relationship, i hope this benfits thing will turn into one again but I know it might not ao I don't know what to do wait for this lad to take me or go off with my ex for friends with benefits, its not what I'd usually do but I'm a teen and confused anyone help? even to tell me what to do about the other guy would help.
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this isn't going to result into a relationship. and your guy doesn't miss you, he misses sex. he is using you and knows you will stick around because of the first thing. let the guy go... you're only going to get hurt. and this time when you move on make sure he is cut out of your life...
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FWB can turn into relationships, but your FWB arrangement will probably not.
FWB relationships work with both people are honest about what they want and need, and are getting a good deal of what they need. When someone accepts a FWB relationship when what they really want is a relationship, it's dishonest and destructive.
End it with your ex. Learn to be okay even if no other guy seems to be interested in you right at the moment.
The best thing you can do about this other guy - is not still be sleeping with and hung up on your ex. You can't control what he feels, but you can control yourself.
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