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I have a friend named Jarmond. I found out he likes me about a month or two ago. He won't stop calling me. Texting me. Telling me he loves me. Talking bad about my boyfriend. Saying how much he wants to kiss me and be with me. Always tries to hang out. Touches me all the time. Ect. What can I say to him to give him the hint that I do NOT like him nor wanna be with him. He's starting stuff with me and my boyfriend trying to brake us up and I'm very annoyed!! Help!
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be honest with him. tell him it is not your fault who youlike and who you don't...because there is a difference between being mean and honest. if you tell him calmly with ease, he will most likely understand that you don't mean to be rude and that you are just trying to tell the truth. ask him nicely to stop bothering you. if he doesn't take this well, its not your fault. dont feel bad...you have a boyfriend and he needs to accept that. Tell him there are plenty of fish in the sea and its your loss (just to keep his self esteem from not breaking).
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To get straight to the point that guy IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. especially because if he loved and cared about you he wouldnt go out of his way to break up you and your boyfriend. Someone who cares about you WANTS you happy. Tell him straight up you don't like him and end your friendship because he is unneeded drama, sweetie.
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Don't "hint" and don't try to spare his feelings: You have to tell him the complete truth.
You don't feel that way about him.
You don't like what he is doing.
You want him to stop and go away.
Say "Don't touch me." in a loud, clear voice.
Get a teacher involved if he wont stop touching you.
Don't try to be too nice. He'll interpret that as permission to continue. Being clear is more important than being nice. Tell him to take a hike.
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