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Scared of Ex


Question Posted Wednesday March 21 2012, 9:32 am

16/f

Firstly it's important to note I have got over my ex. He's with another girl now and I'm cool with that, as he asked me out again and I said no and ceased contact as he's abit of a player really.

You see, for a start hes not nice to me, like when he walks past with his gf and there not holding hands he'll like grab her hand and hold it.
I have to go to revision classess for a subject and he'll be there too. But tbh I'm too scared to go, because as daft as it sounds he makes me feel so uncomfortable I feel ill. I cant talk to him about this as i've blocked him off fb, plus give him so much as a smile and he things you want him back.

Any help? :)


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vikkikimberly answered Thursday March 22 2012, 1:03 pm:
Dear Questioner
This boy is obviously a bit possesive, of both you and these other girl(s). If he will grab her hand
Im also glad your able to say your cool withthe fact he is with another girl, you are obviously mature enough to realise this. And also that you realised that if hes asking you out whilst hes with somebody else, hes not worth it. Well done girl!

my personal advice is to not let this boy get to you. And by that I mean DO NOT let him get in the way of your education.
I cant fully understand why in your situation you feel scared of him, but i do appriciate what your going through. Having had similar feelings myself I would continue to pretend he is not there, meaning be civil to him, but dont engage withhim if you can help it.
However your education is very important. Dont sacrifice a revision class just because somebody else is there.
My advice is to go, hold your head up high and remember you seem to have done everything right and maturely.
vikkikimberly

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Imperfectionist answered Thursday March 22 2012, 6:46 am:
Just pretend he doesn't exist he is obviously desperate for your attention and probably is just using other girls to get you jealous. But don't be scared of him, just shrug it off.

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