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I Think I Messed Up Our Friendship...
Ok, so my best friend and I are REALLY close. I'm never mean to her at all.
I was in English class, when the phone rang. My teacher answered it then said I had to go to the principal's office. I thought it had something to do with my best friend, because she didn't show up to class.
Well, when I entered his office I saw my best friend sitting down and he told me to take a seat next to her. He asked me if I had any idea why I was there and I said no. He said he would give me a few seconds to think about it and I still didn't know. Well, he told me that i've been mean to my best friend. So, she told the principal that I did.
Well, she hates these 4 girls, and I do to and they hate me. I think they forced her to tell the principal lies.
Well, he told me to somehow make it up to my best friend, but I don't know how. He said she won't forgive me if I just say sorry. So, did I screw this up? Did I mess up our friendship for good? How do I make this up to her?
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You should MOST DEFINITELY tell the principal about these girls. Don't accuse them, but let your principal know that they are bullying people. Most schools have an anti bullying policy. You shouldn't be made to apologize for something you weren't aware of. Have you asked your best friend what she is accusing you of exactly? In what way were you mean to her? If it's something you actually did then take responsibility for it. But if it's nothing you've done, you need to have a responsible adult like your principal or parents involved in fixing the situation.
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You should tell this story to the prinicpal, and your best friend. Tell them truthly, and explain why you dont know anything, and tell your friend you are "sorry for what ever it was i did."
But DO NOT tell the prinicpal about these girls... or at least dont Accuse them of something youre not 100% sure they did.
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