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New Cycle? New Start To Life? It's like nobody really knows who I am.
Hello, I'm M/16. I've had some bad personal problems for the past two years. And finally, they are going away. For the past few weeks I've been feeling better than before, A LOT better. But now it's starting to seem like nothing has changed. I haven't really had a girlfriend, ever. There was this one girl I was liking a lot for about two years, I couldn't stop thinking about her. But she does not like me, I finally stopped caring and now, once my problems disappear, I start liking a new girl. And basically there is no hope whatsoever. She has a boyfriend and I can tell she does not like me by the things she says. This is about the 5th or 6th gal I've failed with. I don't get it. People tell me to wait after college or something. Hell no. My problems are said to have an effect on how I communicate with others in general, but I've eliminated my habit and addiction. I just want to blame everyone else, then I get mad at myself for it. Then I start thinking about the ego and my history, I start to feel crazy and whatnot, it's very confusing. It's like nobody really knows who I am.
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Hmmm... Interesting concepts about space-time and other quantum thoughts. However, *this* "reality" allowed your brilliant question and supplemental information. Your concepts are deep, and pretty kewl, too! "Cycles" can be, can be just that. Remember, we are where we are because of where we were. Likewise, the future can be much better than the present when we hold on to the idea that things are better, if for nothing more than, things are better because we know that present-time affects future-time. Simply put, what we think now shapes what we become. In this way, applied consciousness transforms an otherwise dust-like chance and fills it with purposeful awareness.
With regard to girls... us guys may never fully understand them, but its more about the curious persuit in understanding rather than achievement. Well, that's kinda my thought on it anyway.
And, I agree with you... 'hell no' waiting is bogus, but that's not a pass to get all stupid, either. mutual attraction seems to be discovered, built and nurtured. I guess what I'm saying is that a relationship requires on-going effort from each individual.Thomas Edison had tons of failed attempts before success... although it was lightbulbs, but you get my point; 5-6 successful attempts... that's all there is to it, really. A bookie would tell me that you just have to improve your odds, in other words ask more girls. If batters concentrated on their missed hits there would be a lot fewer baseball players. Hey, those guys concentrate on percentages and hits. It's not my call, but I would say you should, too. :-)
Well, it's gettin late, and I'm not makin any money. So, it off to bed or attempt to improve a batting average. Either way... have a nice night, and keep on sluggin, things will get better!
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i also caught in this thoughts that life is meaning less and i convinced myself to the very end i felt empty and life meaningless that even if i earn billion dollar or anything else everything is meaningless but the root cause of it was low self-esteem which give this feeling self-esteem is unlimited self worth unlimited-self love and growth people with low self esteem lack these three things they can't even think of growth,was my answer was meaningfull?
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