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I dont want to be friends anymore
Okay well I have know this girl since first grade and i have pretty much told her every single one of my secrets but this past year she has been blowing me off and doing stuff with guys that she knew i liked and actually got high and gave a bj to one of the guys oi have liked for years and she only met that night. And its getting to the point where idk if i want to be her friend anymore because yeasterday we were supposed to go to the mall with me but she out of no where cancelled and wouldn't tell me why, then i went on facebook and i saw that the girl who was my ex-bff bc she told my secrets, posted on her facebook saying that they had such a good time to day and that she was now over at her house. then i texted her and told her i had to talk to her tomorrow and its serious and she replied no fuck you. At this point, i just don't know what to do anymore and sometimes i have this horrible feeling around her, but if i stop being friends with her, she is the type of person to spread all my secrets and if i stay friends with her she will make my life miserable. and its not like i can get away with her because i have 3 classes with her and she is my only 'friend' in any of them.
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Um I'm pretty sure she has shared a lot of your secrets already but hey don't worry about it let it go and let her run her own life down. If she is hindering your life no get out of that friendship and just ignore her. heck don't do what I did and just "lived" with it. I would move on kid there are better people out there,you just gotta take the time to look for 'em and let 'em come to you :)
or, you can do this. go up to her, grab her,say her name loud and clear, and ask her what the hell is her problem?whats going on and what happened? go to her house or somewhere away from school and just make her listen. Someone may have lied about you and made her believe you did something or maybe she has a secret that is so bad she is taking it out on you or something.. either way just do whats best. hope this helps some
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Don't take this offensively please but it sounds like you're maybe 13 up to 16? If I'm correct on that then please hear me out. Cut this girl out of your life. it may seem like the end of the world if she spreads your secrets but the people that truly care about you are still going to be by your side. by letting her treat you this way, you're letting her know that now she can get away with it. You're worth more than a friendship like that. Sometimes in life you have to let some friends go no matter how long you have known them simply because they have chosen to go down a path that you know isn't right for you. If you would rather try to salvage the friendship then maybe try again to get her to have a private conversation with you and let her know that all of her behavior recently is hurting you and ask her why she's being that way to you if you two are such good friends.
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