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My Boyfriend wants to have sex, but I don't. How do I get him to stop touching me in places I don't want him to?
13/f, bf/16
The other day I gave my boyfriend a blow-job cuz he normally asks me for one, but this time after I was done he asked me if I wanted to have sex and I said no cuz I know i'm not ready. Now he won't stop asking me and he'll try to like touch me in my private place,kiss my kneck and put his hand up my shirt. How do I tell him I don't want to have sex with him in a way he will stop asking and touching me.
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Be straight forward with him. "I am not ready for sex and you need to respect that or I am moving on" It's true. If your boyfriend is pressing you and not excepting no for an answer then you need and should move on. Pressuring someone is NOT love, People who care about YOU will respect you and wait. In my eyes all he wants is sex. The guy is young and generally that is all they think about at that age. Please wait you are way to young! If he isn't willing to listen to you then sweetie dump him because obviously that is all he wants in the first place and that's not right. Dating isn't all about having sex with someone and doing it because they want you too is exactly how you end up regretting it in the long run. If he wanted a blow job and your not ready to do that then tough luck you tell him you are not ready!! Don't do something you aren't ready to do and don't ever let someone talk you into it. I honestly think you should just dump the jerk and move on. Meet someone who wants to date you not just get in your pants....
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Be completely honest and tell him that you are not ready for sex yet. Nobody should be touching you there so tell him to stop! Tell him how you feel about this!
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