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Is dating his best friend okay in this situation?


Question Posted Sunday March 4 2012, 1:33 pm

Okay, it's a long story.... I started talking to this guy about three months ago (We are both 17 by the way) He and I hit it off and he asked me to be his girlfriend, but he just wanted to hang out a few more times first before it became official. He even told me he loved me. Well, between the times we hung out, he met another girl and started dating her behind my back and lied to me about it, telling me he was too busy for a girlfriend with hockey and school and everything and that the distance between us was too much (40 minutes away) However, this other girl lives even farther away from him. Now, he did tell me maybe later on he and I could date if things didn't work out for him and this other girl. But I really don't want to wait for that to happen. And, now I have started to develop feelings for this guy's BEST friend. Would it be okay for me to date his best friend since the original guy and I were never technically dating, and he is the one who broke it off with me? What should I do??

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Razhie answered Sunday March 4 2012, 5:33 pm:
If it comes to it, talk to his best friend about it.

Really, it sounds like you have no reason to feel his friend is off limits, but the best friend might have reason to feel that you are off limits to him. After all, he knows his friend's side of the story as well, and is the better judge of how his friend will take it.

He's really the one who needs to consider his friends feelings and make the judgement on the situation. Go ahead and flirt - if it goes further - ask him if he thinks there is a problem.

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soph0900 answered Sunday March 4 2012, 4:54 pm:
Yeah, its okay.

...wait, bear in mind: Your ex boyfriend/orginal guy will probably be annoyed if you go out with his best friend so be prepared for some agro.

HOWEVER: If you like this best friend, and he likes you back, whats stopping you? Go for it!
Forget your ex boyfriend/orginal guy! If he ever asks, just mention the other girl, that'll shut him up!
:)

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