Question Posted Wednesday February 29 2012, 8:47 pm
I have a big crush on this guy I have not met. My friends tell me we have similar interests. He's not in any of my classes and I tend to visit my friend a lot during passing period just to see him. I really want to meet him and capture his attention and maybe even get him to like me. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cherryhelp answered Saturday March 3 2012, 10:41 pm: Hi ...wow you kinda sound like me ...ok here how it goes ..wanting to get a guys attention can be pretty hard if the guy don,t know you or like you .. but i think i can help ..first when you see him walking by say hi and smile.. second when you see him another time ask him his name or tell him your name .. then try to find out if he have a facebook or twitter so that you can try to get to know him ...by asking that he will get a hint that your interested in him and might want to get to know you a little better ... when or if you get the change in finding out his facebook page or twitter account try talking to him and match your similarity's with his so that he can see that you have things in common with him ... good luck peace and love [ cherryhelp's advice column | Ask cherryhelp A Question ]
babymoby answered Thursday March 1 2012, 10:54 pm: Try to start a conversation such as "Hi I'm (you name) do you have to do that same (some type of project thing too)."
Here I'll give yu steps on 'how to talk to a guy you like for the first time'
1.) Introduce your self.
2.) Ask a question or make a reason to why your coming over to talk to him so he doesn't feel awkward
3.) As him his interests as you were saying your friends and you have a lot of the same interests so use that to start a conversation
4.) Talk for a while.
5.) Laugh so he knows ur human haha no so he knows your a fun person to be around.
6.) Enjoy you self
7.) Dont be to weird (trust me I've tried it...lets just say it wasnn't a good idea)
8.) Dont force a conversation. When there's no more 'interesting' or important topics to talk about the conversation is over.
9.) Tell him you enjoyed talking to him
The reason I give you this list is because this is the best way to capture someones attention by showing them your personality. Be ypur self most importantly and don't let anything hold you back.
Good luck and I hope everything works out alright :) [ babymoby's advice column | Ask babymoby A Question ]
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