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people who have had 3 somes
This is a question for people that are in or were in a relationship and have had three somes. Basically how did it go (did you enjoy it or not, did it ruin your relationship, any other things that came up with it). I've been thinking about it and its been brought up that both of us would enjoy both types but im a little uneasy. When im really horny it all sounds good having two girls to myself and letting someone else be with her at the same time. But when im not im 90 percent sure i would kick the guys ass or and not let the other girl doing anything with me (i wouldnt mind letting her and another girl do stuff with eachother)
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When it comes to sex my feeling is that if both partners are consenting then it is okay to do something. From what I'm readying you are not truly consenting. Sure a 3 some with another women would not bother you much but would you partner feel as you do if the 3 some was with another man. That to me would not be a 100% consensual between you.
Statistically Swinging, group sex and other forms of multiple partner sexual events have ruined more marriages then hidden extra marital affairs. Casual sex in marriage for some reason just doesn't work like it does outside of marriage. Jealousy always seems to come into play.
My advice is that based on what you have written; I don't think this is something you and your partner should try.
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Edit: Nope never actually done it but 99% of the time jealousy plays a role.
Don't do it
In my opinion threesomes are the sore string to a marriage, It ruins it. Sometimes even without intentions not everyone is always on the same page. People can develop feelings for one another without intentions. Shit like that just sometimes happens
Really, Sometimes it is best not to let our curiosity get the best of us. When you have a threesome you are putting your relationship/marriage at risk. Sure the idea of it sounds great but sometimes a fantasy and reality can be two different things. Threesomes often end up turning into reality, drama, jealousy and before you know it you've got yourself chaos in your relationship. My advice to you is not to sacrifice your relationship like that, If you are your partner need a change of taste then take a trip to the sex store together find other ways to satisfy your needs. Never allow another person into your personal lives because when you do you are opening your marriage and relationship to someone else which can very well do more harm then good. I firmly believe that a relationship should be between two people and kept that way. Is your Relationship/Marriage worth the risk?
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