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Its been 3 years since I last had sex was practicing celibacy We'll I gave in for Vday !!Now he went down ate it like a monster & then went to go fck was hard at first to get it in but it got it Felt good after so long bt he got his I didnt get mine Whats that abt ? What do I do if there is a next time ..
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From what you have written the only conclusion I can draw is that you need to find a more considerate sex partner.
It would help to know your ages as that plays into the what, when and how of your question. A guy can get off almost anywhere at any time. For a guy a wham, bam, thank you mam is just fine. Especially if your teenagers doing it and not wanting to get caught. For the guy it is all in the release. Frankly a hand job would do the same for him for the most part.
For the girl it is more involved than that. There has to be an aspect of love, trust, comfort and security. She needs to feel his love through foreplay. Your description of; "Now he went down ate it like a monster," does not sound like much foreplay. So the love and trust are missing. This leaves comfort and security.
When you made love was it in someplace you felt safe and was it someplace you were comfortable. If either one or both of these were missing that is three or four strikes against you getting off. Then if you were worried about birth control as well your chances of a happy ending continue to decline.
Last but not least, and they will kick me out of the men's club for this; boys/men really do not know how to make love to a women. As I said they are in it for themselves. Women have to teach us to please them. To be totally true men also have to teach women how to please them. Sex is a two way street; both partners deserve to get pleasure from it. The problem comes in that neither truly knows what the others needs are when it comes to sex and are generally too embarrassed to tell the other.
Next time make sure you have a comfortable place to make love and that you won't be found or intruded upon. Then if your partner seems to be in a hurry slow him down and show him how to make love to you. Otherwise your in for another fck instead of lovemaking.
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Hi...wow so not a great time this time around. I think you just need to tell him to slow down, I'm sure that the second time will be better. You will have to tell him what turns you on and what he needs to do to get you to the big 'O' but if your willing to talk to him I'm sure you both will have a lot more fun together.
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