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Complicated relationship: He treats me like shit. Lies, talks down too me, cancells plans, and contradicts everything he says.


Question Posted Thursday February 9 2012, 2:51 am

I am in a complicated relationship.
I slept with my flat mate and two years later we are still together... fight, fight, love. fight, fight, love etc. I moved out too ease the strain, but its still the same pattern.

He treats me like shit. Lies, talks down too me, cancells plans, and contradicts everything he says. His friends and family have all said he is lucky to have me, which just makes things worse.

I am confident, bubbly and a happy young lass, but he just makes me feel sad.

any advice??


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Xui answered Thursday February 9 2012, 1:03 pm:
This relationship isn't complicated, There is a fine line between being complicated and just clearly not wanting to be in a relationship. Your boyfriend doesn't seem interested in making it work at all.

You being a girlfriend should be a main priority in his life. If he treats you like shit, talks down to you etc. Then why the hell are you sitting around waiting for him? You are wasting your time. The guy isn't the right one for you, He is a dirt bag.

You are confident but you don't have the confidence in you to move on and meet someone else. Seriously, If someone treats you like shit then that is a sign you shouldn't be with them.

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hylaw1970 answered Thursday February 9 2012, 6:56 am:
Please leave him... go on to better things! You will look back if you do this & see how much happier you are........... or you will stay with him, look back & be sorry you never found out how you SHOULD be treated. How you deserve
to be treated.
Thanks :)

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Pook answered Thursday February 9 2012, 6:14 am:
Break up with him!

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