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I have always felt like killing myself I need help but don't want to talk to coucillers but actually someone who has felt the same
I have always felt like killing myself I need help but don't want to talk to coucillers but actually someone who has felt the same,
I have a daughter but still feel like shit as soon as she's not around or asleep
My past experience are stoping me from being who I am and I need someone to tell about all the night mares and fears I have.
All the people around me try to remind mee about what's important but it's like
My brains dosnt connect like there please help or lead me the right way as I'm lost and sick of hearing the same answers I'm sick of everything I try so hard at just fucks up everyone I talk to says it's my fault
Please I need advise as I'm
Blaming exstictance on this problem
Also should a pretty girl in her early 20d shouldn't be angry all the time should they plead reply back at
Jemmasomerville@yahoo.com.au
Thank you
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I am 13 years old and have gone through that. My dad was a very abusive person. He made me feel like everything was my fault. My parents are divorced and i thought it was my fault. I have tried to commit suicide but i knew it would only upset the ones i love. once i got away from the problem i was fine. lately i have been getting angry and tried to do what i was doing before, but i know it will only make everyone around me feel like it is their fault. the moral of this story is that killing yourself is wrong. you can try doing yoga or meditating. think about your little girl and how she would feel if she lost her mommy. when my mom left, i thought she left because of me. i felt terrible. i know that if you tried to calm down, wether it is getting help by a therapist, talking to someone who relates to you, or doing yoga, you should be fine.
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Suicide is not the answer. I was injured in an auto accident that left me with chronic pain suffering. For reasons I won't go into it was 2 years before I could see anyone who could get the pain under control. During that time there were times that the pain was so bad the thoughts of why suffer enters ones mind.
The injuries causing my pain are non correctable. I am considered disabled and have had to change my entire lifestyle. Now when I want to do anything I have to decide if what I want to do is worth the pain.
The hospital that treats my pain has what is called a pain management center. As a patient of the center I not only receive direct treatment for the pain. I also need to go to counseling to understand the pain cycle. Pain causes depression and depression causes pain.
Wanting to kill yourself is depression talking or showing itself, possibly postpartum depression. Depression is pain; maybe not the physical pain that I feel but pain none the less. You are in pain, maybe not physical pain but some type of mental anguish.
If you are suffering from postpartum depression, which can last a long time, or other type of non manic depression, there are medical treatments that will help you feel better. The medicine and Therapy with a qualified therapist will help. I've been there and I know. I also know that sometimes the first Therapist, or counselor you meet with is someone you are not comfortable with. This is okay it happens. I went through three different therapist until I found one I was comfortable with. Therapists are use to this. If your not comfortable with who you chose say so. They will help you find someone else to work with.
What is important with therapy is that you are comfortable with the therapist. You need to be so that you can be totally open with them. You need to know and trust that they will never reveal to anyone what is discussed in therapy. I am fortunate I found the lady I work with. Even though I am male I am more comfortable working with her than I was with the 2 males therapists I met with before her.
My advice: She your doctor and be screened for depression. Then follow the doctors advice on what treatment to get. If you ever feel you are going to hurt yourself or your baby you can either call 911 or this number 1-800-273-TALK. This number is for the National Suicide Hotline. It is open 24/7 and the people there will stay on the phone with you and help you to get help.
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