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my dad is cheating on my mom
i figured it out on christmas eve and even though i wasnt supposed to look through his text messages i did because i already had a bad feeling about it. in his inbox, all the mssages were from friends and workmates but in his sent items most messages were sent to an unknown number and they go like "are u wearing panties?" "where are you?" "im coming please reply" "are mad at me"
i think there were a lot more but i couldnt take reading em all anymore for i was shaking. i dont have respect for my father anymore. not one. :(((((((((
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Okay, you went and snuck around until you found something you were not supposed to see. How sure are you that your dad is sneaking around on your mom. What other evidence do you have.
Have you ever heard of phone sex. Well to me what you have seen is very similar. It's called cyber-sex. It's very titillating but it is not cheating. If this is all the evidence you have then you are accusing your father of having nothing more than an over active libido.
Nature plays some strange tricks on us. Mom and dad are most likely at ages were their sex drives don't match. Moms is on a down slope as she approaches menopause and dads is on the upswing. If you have no other evidence than what you found in his email you may be wrongly accusing your dad of something that is nothing more than cyber-sex. A natural and safe outlet for his over active libido.
Before you go and do something you may regret make sure of what you think you know. He is still your father and he still loves you, I'm sure of that. Before you do anything to hurt yourself or your family make sure of your facts then triple check them.
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I found some messages on my moms phone a while ago that was with her boss, eew...I already knew he cheated on his wife more than once and now he wanted my mom. Yuck...It said things like thanks for last night;) and I cant wait to see you again. They all had little smiley faces and everything. Then I found pictures of almost naked girls on my dad's phone. He was looking at them online. I dont remember the last time my parents hugged, said they love each other, kiss each other or anything like that. They haven't slept on the same room for MANY years. My mom hates it when my dad comes home. What I did is what I do with anything else that bothers me. I write poetry, draw, exercise, ect. And most of all, I prayed. Now my mom barely talks to him and I talked to her about it, everything is good now. I hope it turns out the same for you. :)
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