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Why is it hard for me to say this to others?
my mom has recently told me that I never say I'm sorry. I dont know why but i have a really hard time saying it. It kills me inside when i do say it. And i can rarely give good compliments! I want more friends and so i have to be nice. But how will I do that if i cant even say sorry or good job!? How can I give compliments and say sorry more often without feeling horrid!?
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I'm the same way. I hate saying sorry. You see, I'd rather forget about bad things, and apologizing just dredges them right back up.
I prefer to patch up my relation other ways, such as being nice to the offended party in the future.
Perhaps you could try to figure out /why/ you have trouble saying sorry? Is it for the same reason I hate saying it, or is it something else?
As for giving compliments, they don't have to be especially extravagant. A simple "nice shirt" or "I like your hat" will suffice. Don't go out if your way to compliment every person you see, but if someone has done something of note or you like something they're wearing or if they have done something else worthy of praise, compliment it.
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