Member Since: January 28, 2012
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my mom has recently told me that I never say I'm sorry. I dont know why but i have a really hard time saying it. It kills me inside when i do say it. And i can rarely give good compliments! I want more friends and so i have to be nice. But how will I do that if i cant even say sorry or good job!? How can I give compliments and say sorry more often without feeling horrid!? (link)
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I'm the same way. I hate saying sorry. You see, I'd rather forget about bad things, and apologizing just dredges them right back up.
I prefer to patch up my relation other ways, such as being nice to the offended party in the future.
Perhaps you could try to figure out /why/ you have trouble saying sorry? Is it for the same reason I hate saying it, or is it something else?
As for giving compliments, they don't have to be especially extravagant. A simple "nice shirt" or "I like your hat" will suffice. Don't go out if your way to compliment every person you see, but if someone has done something of note or you like something they're wearing or if they have done something else worthy of praise, compliment it.
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what can you do when you`re so lost you dont know what you`re doing anymore and want to kill yourself but dont really know which way to do it?
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Well, the problem with suicide options is that they are all very inefficient. For example, hanging, a popular option, is ineffective unless done properly, and in most cases of suicide it is not. Hanging works because it snaps the neck quickly, but it only does that when the person being hung is falling from a certain height, most people committing suicide this way do not drop themselves from the proper height, leaving them to a slow death via suffocation.
Overdosing on medicine, another popular option, is probably one of the worst ways to go out. You see, it's not as simple as falling asleep. You'll feel like shit, vomit, then feel like shit again. This could go on for days.
"Well" you're probably thinking "What about shooting myself?" Well, it's actually possible to survive being shot in the head, but it might leave you with brain damage.
And, apparently people try to kill themselves via cutting their wrists. This is a throughly stupid option. Sure, there's a large blood vessel in your arm, but you'd have to cut pretty damn deep to get to it, also bleeding to death sucks. Seriously. This would probably be more painful than overdosing.
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