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he wont stop hitting me
OK I'm a 15 year old female and my bf won't stop beating I broke up with him and its getting a lot worse I have to call the polese to get him to stop pleas help me I'll take any advice.
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First: No one has the right to touch, or hit anyone else. You did the right thing in leaving your boyfriend.
Now the fact that he is still finding you and hitting you. If this is happening in school you tell a teacher or the school principal and they will handle it from the stand point that they can from school discipline. You also tell your parents what is happening so they can take the appropriate action.
If he is chasing after you both in and out of school or just in school, yes you can call the police yourself for help. The police are always there to help you. You do not need your parents to call them. You call 911 and tell them you need help and why.
If it is happening just in school it and you can get home safely, then it is even better to wait until mom and dad can be there with you when the police come to take the report.
Under the law what is happening may very well fall under the domestic battery statues. At the very least his hitting you and stalking you, the fact that he finds you to harm you is stalking, are real legal charges for which he can be arrested for. He should be arrested for this, if not he will think he is invincible and get away with things like the. Who knows what he will do next. By calling the police and bringing charges you may be saving some girls life later in his life.
So that is what you do. You tell a teacher and or the school principal. You call the police yourself unless you can get home safely and wait for your parents to be with you and then call the police. You and your parents should file charges against this boy for stalking and assault. This is the only way you can get him the help he needs to learn his actions are unacceptable.
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I think you are too young to handle this on your own. Is there anyone who can help you escape from this guy? No-one deserves to be beaten, whatever they're supposed to have done. You need to get away from him now, before it gets too hard to get out.
Could you ask the police for advice? At 15, you're still a minor, under legal protection from such rough treatment. I don't know what's available where you live but can you find someone to listen take you serio?sly? Family, friends, teachers, doctors, asdvice workers - whoever, get the information out there so someone knows what's happening to you then get away from him. He's no boyfriend, just a bully looking for a target.
Hope this helps, keep in touch of you think I can help further? Take care of yourself and good luck.
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You took the correct first step in breaking up with him. Make sure it stays that way.
Go to your parents, if you possibly can. You should do this immediately; don't wait for him to hit you again. Hopefully, they will take action without needing convincing. If it is necessary to get the police involved, it is better if they take that step; the police would need to inform them anyway if you called them.
Long story short, this is not something you should have to deal with on your own. But if your situation is such that your parents will not be any help, you can go to a school official such as a teacher or counselor. They can help as well, especially if your boyfriend attends the same school.
It is possible that he will deny the charges. That will make things difficult for you, but you MUST go through with it. Don't let him win.
Best of luck to you.
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