How can I trust my boyfriend and not be jealous of him?
Question Posted Tuesday January 17 2012, 2:34 pm
what can i do to not be jeleous of my boyfriend? what can i do to trust him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AdviceMistress answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 9:38 am: Why are you jealous of your boyfriend?
Is it because he gets a lot of attention? Does he hang around with other girls?
And as far as trust goes you need that in your relationship. Without trust there is no relationship. What I have always said, is that there are two main things in a relationship which are trust and communication. When something goes wrong in a relationship the best thing to do is to talk it out. Everyone is so quick to break up instead of fixing the problem and making sure that everyone is happy. For years and years when I was dating, I had boyfriends who I couldn't talk to. I wasn't allowed to talk to them and I always wanted to be with someone that could be my boyfriend but also be a friend as well. My boyfriend and I know have great communication and trust. It's unbelievable because whenever there is a problem we fix it. If something is bothering me I tell him. If I said something to upset him, he tells me. We work it out.
Trust is something that you need to have with your boyfriend. Talk to him and tell him what's bothering you! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
Never2bAlone answered Tuesday January 17 2012, 9:36 pm: Unless he has given you a reason not to trust him just relax and enjoy the relationship. However, if he has given you a reason and you feel like you can't trust him mostlikely you never will and righfully so. You don't want to spend your life jealous and wondering what he is up to, thats no fun so find someone you can trust and be happy. Trust issues will destroy a relationship eventually rather there is a reason or not. He will get tired of your jealousy and you will get tired of looking over your shoulder wondering whats going on. [ Never2bAlone's advice column | Ask Never2bAlone A Question ]
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