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Could I Be A Lesbian or Bisexual
I am 15 years old and girl obviously. Anyways, im feeling weird lately because im really confused about my sexuality. I dont know, I find guys attractive and ive onlt ever had one boyfriend, but that doesnt matter. Then again whenever i think about any of "you know", im thinking about girls. And i think about girls when i masterbate. However i cant tell if i am interested in girls, because there are a few girls i find extremely hot but i dont know if i could ever actual date one or kiss one. Im confused! Anyone help?
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Since I am old enough to be your grandfather I am going to give it to your straight.
First: I don't believe in labels they do nothing but cause trouble, especially for someone of your tender age.
Second: At your age you are still exploring your sexuality which is very normal. All teenagers go through this. Why put a label on yourself while your exploring. It would be like someone training for the space program calling themselves a scuba diver because they went scuba diving once.
No, your teenage years are for exploring and learning. Learning about yourself is a big part of your teenage years. Learning about your sexuality is part of learning about yourself. Right now your hormones are playing havoc with you. There suppose to, it is part of teenage life.
Later in life, after college when your in your early twenties your sexual identity will be established better. Here again a label doesn't matter. You are who you are. You can be pan-sexual, bisexual, lesbian, straight or transgender it doesn't matter.
It only matters to the bigoted of the world or the kids in school if you where to label yourself now. Enjoy the exploration and keep your discovery's to yourself for know. Kids in school can be very thoughtless and hurting if you were to label yourself at this time. It is for this reason I do not like labels and they are really never needed for sexual purposes as far as I am concerned.
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I think. like most 15 year-olds, you're exploring some of the possibilities of life. As long as you're straight and careful with the people you get involved with, there shouldn't be many problems.
Whatever, don't consider yourself as abnormal in any way. There are more people like you than not, you are on the range of normal, even if you are lesbian or bi-sexual.
Hope this helps a bit, let me know how you get on? Good luck x.
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You are 15 and you stated "Im confused!"
I would just simply say you are bi-curious, I wouldn't put a label on it.
Curious I would say
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you shouldn't think about it too much seeing as you're only 17 but you very well may be bi sexual. In order to really know however you'd have to experiment. You never really know other wise. Back to you dating a boy, did you date him because you were attracted to him or because you thought it was socially acceptable. I mean either way you might just like both! And there's nothing wrong with that ;)
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