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seeing guy for 3 months,asked for total honesty, found out he's been seeing


Question Posted Sunday January 15 2012, 8:27 pm

I'm 47 and recently divorced. Started seeing a guy and told him straight up I wanted total honesty no matter what and wasn't interested in sexual buddy relationship. He's been cold then hot for 3 months. Found out he's been seeing someone else also. Why lie? He seems to be mad at me now for finding out,why? He won't come right out and say he doesn't want to see me anymore. Before finding out he would say he likes me a lot but he was scared. What's going on with him?


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Razhie answered Sunday January 15 2012, 10:27 pm:
He's just not that into you.

End it. He might honestly have liked you, and been scarred, but he didn't like you enough and he doesn't want to be with you.

Don't sit around waiting for him to make it right. That's just a waste of your time. Walk away now and stop worrying so much about 'why' - you'll never really, 100%, know what was going through his mind.

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Xui answered Sunday January 15 2012, 10:00 pm:
You caught him in a lie, That is exactly what's going on. Cheaters do not like to be caught and when they are caught they don't like to admit they were wrong. Sometimes, Even when we have all the proof in the world we still go in denial.

Simply: The man is cheating on you, He is pissed because you caught him red handed.

If you want a real relationship then you are going to have to find a real man. Time to move on

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