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what would you do if you were in my shoes?
i have this guy friend and i am slowly starting to fall for him but i know for that he doesn't feel the same way about. but he always likes to talk to me and he's always staring at me. so maybe he might have some interest? idk but i want to tell him just to be honest with him because i don't want him thinking that i am only having friend feelings for him when i really want something more. what should i do?
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I was like that with my now boyfriend. We were good friends for five years until we started going out two months ago. Always been friend feelings, even through all our friends 'knew' we had 'feelings' for each other.
We ended up getting into more of a relationship when we were dared to pull each other at a party.
It's worth a go? :L
I know it sounds a bit childish, I was so nervous though, as I knew I liked him, but I thought he'd be like 'WTF, no.' haha.
But, yeah, if I'm honest, I think the best way is to get close at a party. Maybe not the dare bit, but it's the easiest and sly-est way to get around it.
Or, it's coming up to Valentines Day? ;D
- I think most answers I gave last night were confusing haha!
But yes basically what I was trying to say is to go for it. I know it'd be hard as it's a good friendship at stake, but don't try - don't get, and that would be a shame as you really like him.
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I was in the same situation last year. It never turned out well for me. The guy I fell for and thought liked me turned on me and went out with my best friend. Now he doesn't even acknowledge me when I see him now. Although I know our situations are different, you should only go as far in friendship with him as it would take for you to not get hurt because in the end, your friendship would be worth nothing if you are unhappy or hurt. If it means staying away from him, it might be better for you especially if you know that he doesn't feel the same way. Stay friends with him if you know it won't hurt you but if your sensitive like me, try and go find another guy so you don't get hurt. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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