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He doesn't want anyone to know we are dating?
Soo i am 16years old and i have a boyfriend and he doesnt want people to know that im going out with him and he said it is becuase he does not like people knowing who he is going out with and i dont know if that is the real resean but i dont know how to ask him or know if it ia really true ?What can i do ?
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It might be true, but it's immature and not okay.
You should insist on being open with your friends and family. Some people might not be comfortable with posting thier relationship online, or declaring it to strangers, and that can be fair, but a real, mature relationship cannot happen in 'secret'.
If he can't accept that, don't be in a relationship with him. He's not ready for an mature and honest relationship until he is ready to be open open about with others.
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If he isn't willing to be open, Then don't date him.
A relationship is about 90% more difficult if you try to keep it behind closed doors. A relationship should be about being able to freely express yourselves. Is he embarrassed, Ashamed? Even if these are the reasons "hiding" a relationship is stressful and overwhelming.
You want to be able to go out and have a good time together, Hang with friends maybe even a group etc. How the hell can you do that if you can't be open with your relationship? If the guy wants to be immature and paranoid then let him but find someone else who isn't ashamed of your relationship.
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