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what is it called when you can not feel the emotion love?


Question Posted Thursday January 12 2012, 7:08 pm

I have this problem, you see, i dont feel love. I dont have that emotion.. I currently dumped my pregnant gf because i was tired of living the lie of love. I feel lust. but i really thought that maybe a while after being with her and experiencing everything with her i would feel love. but no. i feel no love towards my family members, friends, or exs, not even my son who is due in april. im saddened that i cant even feel love for my son. ive been super depressed lately and i know ive hurt her emotionally but i still can honestly say ive never felt love, ive felt loved, but i cant love anyone. Ive been this way since i was a teen. My childs mother has tried helping me, shes not really concerned that i dont love her but shes concerned that i feel nothing for my son. What is my problem? What is wrong with me? What is this called?

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latinheart answered Thursday January 19 2012, 7:25 pm:
you heard that phrase..i got to trust my self before i trust others..well is almost the same you got to love your self before you can love someone but yes its sad you cant love your kids...kids didnt ask to be born or come to this worl things ahppen for a reson that kid had you and only you to love it open you herat se him/her smile makes you smile think of the things you enjoy in the pass that made you laught sry giggle..in the split second there was some passion of love in there to make you have emotions..give and inbrace that with the life you vreated..in time you will undrtstand you have loved and it will love you 10 times more its not allways feelings is what you do that shows them you love them even if u dont say it as much

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mannequin24 answered Thursday January 12 2012, 8:04 pm:
Apathetic is the word.
Honestly, you should try talking to somebody about it. Maybe a therapist? There's really no way for people online to be able to fully answer your question.

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