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Wedding blues
So I'm approaching the big 28.... Everytime I hear of someone getting married or having a child it makes me so sad. I wsnt both and actually am engaged to be married in ten months. However I have been having an affair - should I just look past the affair and move on since I want these things so badly ??? Someone give me some advice !
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You need to talk to your fiance about this and come clean about what you have been doing. Being engaged to someone is saying that you want to be with them and only them for the rest of your life. I'm not judging you, but you have to be realistic here you're going to get married and not even tell your fiance you've been cheating on him? You have to think about how much you love him and if you really want to be with him. I understand you want to be married and have kids but you can't hurry love and you also can't continue on with something when you know you've done something like that. Be honest with him and tell him. Then it's in his hands on whether he wants to forgive you or not.
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I'm 27, I'm not married nor do I have kids either. Why? The economy puts me in such a position where my partner and I are currently on hold in certain aspects of our life. We enjoy being together, Although we both would like to get married someday it isn't the most important thing and it's not something we make a big deal of.
Your biggest mistake is your affair, You are engaged and to be married in 10 months and you are already seeing someone else?! You need to get your issues situated before you make a choice to walk down the isle. If you can't be honest with yourself now then you are going to be heading for a divorce real fast. Many people aren't married, Have kids nowadays and you know what else? MANY PEOPLE AREN'T EVEN ENGAGED! You are not the only one to want but having an affair is not going to solve your problems, Make it come any faster or fill your void of wants and needs faster then 10 months will. Seriously, You are engaged you should be planning your wedding faithfully with your fiance and focusing on the two of you. I think you should be honest with him, Tell him how you feel and I suggest clearing the air of your affair as well. You are in the wrong and you are setting yourself up for failure if you walk down the isle without being honest with yourself and your partner.
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