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Does my boss like me?
Im a 24 yr old female and ive worked for a security company for 7 months now. my boss is a 28 yr old male. Since ive started, my co workers tell me that im the only one he talks to about non work related things. He always tries to make me laugh and people say they feel chemestry when we r talking. on new yrs eve i ran into him at a bar at midnight and we ended up talking for over an hour until we were kicked off the patio due to bar close. the next day at work he came up to me very smiley and embaresed and asked how big of an ass did he make of himself. followed by hes worried about what i thought of him after that. he was worried because he felt he kept me there cuz he kept blabbing. for him to come out as everyone left the area and say "im more worried about what u thought of me" is like whoa! i no im an adult but secretly i have had the hots for him but avaiod relationships at work. we are very professional people but the feelings cant be stopped im starting to think. So would this mean he is interested in me and tried to hint it to me?
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oh boy, girl, open your eyes, usually if all your co-workers think that he likes you then he does. If you are interested, ask him out to a movie or for a coffee. He may feel that because he is your boss, he should not ask you out. You should find out what the companys work rules are for dating co-workers, but you would not be the first person to date their boss. Most relationships start at the work place. I would talk to him about work dating relationships and see what he says about it. Also, you have to think about the future, what if you start dating and you end up not liking eachother. Where would you go to work? Think of an x boyfriend working at your place of work and having to see him everyday. Then again you could end up married and he could be the love of you life. Of course, if you don't take the chance you will never know.
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Sounds like he is defiantely interested in you but you two should decide if you want to keep your jobs. Usually these kinds of situations don't end well. Other co-workers will become jealous especially if you are getting special treatment. When a raise or promotion comes up the questions will rise rather or not you deserve it or just getting it because of the boss. Or on the flips side if anything happens negatively between the two of you, you or he may risk losing your jobs or perhaps just the mention of the relationship may cause him to get fired. Be careful.
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