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Help!!
I suspect my girlfriend is cheating on me. How do i know? What signs do I look for?
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Well why do you think she's cheating on you in the first place?
People who cheat tend to be very sneaky or very quiet about things. If she seems off to you I would consider that to be a sign. If she is always checking her phone or texting someone or even going off into another room thats a sign. I would confront her if I were you. Ask he if she is and if she gets really defensive or can't look you in the eye than there's a possibly she might be cheating!
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This is a crazy idea, so bear with me.
Try talking to her.
Obviously there's a reason why you feel you can't trust her. Maybe it's her fault, maybe it's yours. Maybe it's something that happened in the past. Either way, it's something that needs to be confronted. And not by checking her cell phone or having your friends spy on her.
Don't get in her face. Don't accuse. Don't shout. Just let her know that you're having some trust issues, and you need to talk to her about them. This is on you right now. You're the one who can't trust her, so accept responsibility for those feelings and try to work out a way to get rid of them.
Even if she's totally innocent, if you can't trust her there's no future for your relationship. You can't go through life fuming and wondering if your partner is screwing around on you behind your back.
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