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Boyfriend doesn't want sex
My boyfriend is 30 and I'm 23. We've been dating for almost 3 years now and have been living with each other for a year. In the beginning of our relationship we would have sex all the time. Usually 1-2 times a day. Now we have sex maybe once a week, if that, and I'm the one who initiates it. Just recently he started turning me down more and more. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. He's making me feel unloved & unattractive. Is there a way to increase his sex drive? I don't want to have to beg him for sex...
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At thirty his sex drive should not be this low. Try to get him to see his doctor to have his testosterone levels checked as well as to be screened for depression. Work related stress can bring on what is called clinical depression.
I'm not sure what cause low testosterone but it is easily corrected with a pill. Clinical Depression is easily addressed as it is a loss or insufficient amount of a hormone that can also be addressed with medication. Talk therapy is also advised to find out what the trigger is and how best to address it.
Not being a doctor I cant make a diagnoses and even if I was I could not do so without examining your boyfriend. Just for your knowledge statistically 1 in 3 of us suffer from some form of clinical depression at some time.
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you should neber beg for sex, it should be something entered in to by two loveing eaquely inthuseastick parners. mabie your other half neads a littel more spice to your sex life. why not talk to him about it.
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It might not be a problem with you. Have you noticed if he's been depressed or distracted lately? That might be the problem. I would try to talk to him about it. There might be some things that's going on and you might be able to help him.
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