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Am I doing right?
Me and my partner have a very complicated relationship,we are constantly quarreling bc we don't agree in almost anything,but we work things out with sex,I know this is not healthy,though,but it has become our perfect remedy,we just forget about everything,don't talk at all and just have sex,but the next day things usually are the same,what could I do about this??thanks!!
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Here are some articles I have found that may help you to connect with her without necessarily having sex. Have a read :)
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There is nothing wrong with occasionally having make-up sex, but the key is to make sure you have made up first through other forms of communication.
Whenever problems arise in my own relationship we discuss things with the kettle on and make drinks and so on and hear each-other out and try and come to a sensible compromise before we get physical again.
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How about you actually solve the issues you both have instead of having sex which is a temporary cure. Having sex doesn't solve the problem, as you know for yourself, the next day, the problem is still there. So, talk about the issues and together come to some solution. That way the issue you both had is solved, and after you have had sex, that issue won't be there. This is like a step towards the right direction, because after sometime, sex is all your relationship will be about. Humans can't live with sex only relationships, we need the companionship, the friendship and all that other stuff.
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I have to say that a relationship built entirely on sex is a relationship built on quicksand. At some point the uniqueness of the sex will dull and even the sex will become routine. Then you have nothing in common.
If sex is the only thing the two of you can have together without fighting; my advice is for the two of you to part company.
Probably not the answer you want to hear but I believe it is the correct answer. Beauty and sexual attraction is what may be needed to start a relationship. For a relationship to grow and be nurtured their must be more. Common interest or activities. The desire to learn about similar things are what is needed to develop a healthy relationship. I don't see this in your writing to us.
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