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i dont leave my room i stopped eating and my body is all tingley
I dated this guy in primary(im now in high school) and it was a preety harsh brake up.Days after he ended it I started never coming out of my room. I still stay in my room but now i dont eat or drink and my body goes all tingley. I just need to know why it is. Can you help me???
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You're slowly giving up because you dont want to give him up and you want him back and nothing else so your losing your grip on life and what you feel, care about, and love is slowly going away. Your body is tingely because its trying to numb itself while holding on to what's left your system.
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You are having a tingly feeling because your body is malnourished from the lack of eating and drinking. It is a good idea to eat and drink as soon as possible and it is a also a good idea to go and see a doctor as you don't know how much damage you have done to your body. As far
as relationships go ,baby they come a dime a dozen.You have so much time for dating and this will probably not be the last breakup for you. You are worth so much more than than what you are doing to your body.Talking to someone is probably a good idea .You will start to feel better in no time .I have a 19 year old daughter.If you are still having problems email me ( mizznette1@hotmail.com anytime .I will do whatever I can to help
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I'll skip over the why you are feeling as you are since that is already been addressed and go straight to the tingly feeling.
I am not a doctor, none of are that I know of, so I can't be 100% sure what is causing the tingling feeling. What I do know is the body needs certain nourishment to function. Deprive the body of food and water and it is not long before certain things start to happen.
If you have truly not eaten or drank anything in the last few days the tingly feeling is a warning alarm from your body. A body can go without food longer than it can go without water as it can live of the fat the body stores. We do not have a way of storing water so about 3 days without water, not soda or coffee, the body starts to break down.
If you have gone long enough without taking in enough water the tingling you are feeling is the first signs that something is wrong. At this point am not sure you can take in enough water to replace what is missing and might need an IV replacement with balanced electrolyte.
Sounds really dangerous doesn't it, it is. Am I trying to scare you. Just a bit, for if you continue you will get much sicker and could end up in the hospital. Frankly no one is worth getting that sick over. You will meet other guys. As my mother always said; "Their are more fish in the sea, just start fishing again."
Let me tell you something about teenage boys, having been one myself some decades ago. Teenage boys are very fickle. They want what they want and if they don't get it from you they will go someplace else. If they do get it from you they are just as apt to go somewhere else in search of new adventures. What they want is sex. They are hard wired to look for sex from the time they enter puberty. Unlike girls they very much confuse lust and love.
Honestly this young boy is not worth getting so sick over. There will be other loves in your life. What I would like you to do is to start eating and drinking again. Tell mom and dad about the tingling. I believe you need to see a doctor, today even if that means going to a hospital emergency room.
If as I am guessing that the tingling is being caused because you are dehydrated if so just drinking water at home is not enough. You will need some IV fluids to rehydrate you and put your electrolytes back in balance.
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You're in what we call the grieving phase after a relationship is terminated. What you are experiencing is fairly normal.
Its important that eventually you start to eat normally again and talking with people and try to continue on with your social life as it was before. There's no reason to torture yourself over something like this, no matter how bad it seems.
You're just starting high school, and I'm sure there are plenty better, nicer, smarter, cooler, more attractive guys who will treat you better and make you feel better about yourself.
Just remember that in the grand scheme of things, its really not that big a deal. You may feel bad right now, but I promise you will look back some day and be able to take a sigh of relief, and smile once you reach a better time in your life.
I can assure you there will be plenty of them to come. ;)
Good luck.
xChaos
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