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I know I don't like my mom don't know how I feel about my sister thou...
Ok I'm 12 And this might be a little long so you might want to move on.Ok so just a day ago this happen. I have two sister's. One 15 and one only a few weeks old.So we don't have a lot of money so my Aunt who has a three yr old let us use some of her stuff from when the three yr old was a baby.But we HAVE to give to back. Because of the milk she eat get a lot of junk on stuf like sleepers, t-shirts, bib's and changing pads. We use awesome. My older sister most time's put's the awesome on there but she and me Mom thought that I could help. So my very frist time doing it. She show's me how and watch me do it a few time then she said ok you got it and went back to doing what she was doing. Some time went by then I came to a changing pad. I look at it three time's but I did not see one thing on it that needed awesome. Because my sister said put awesome milk is(pop,pee whatever)I did not know what to do. Say I called her and said:this does not have anything in it. But It was in the bag that need to be awesomed. Can I just put awesome all over it and wash all over it? Then she said: well ok. But make sure that you wash it out really really good. Ok? Then I said ok it did it. Some time later mt sis(the older one) went out to get the Christmas stuff(for the tree) And I came to this sleeper. I again look three time for something that needed awesome. I did not find anything. So I thinking that I can put awesome all over it just like I did with the changing pad. I stared to put awesome all over it.Then My sister came in. And stared talking(before I go on I will tell you that from the door way and can see right in to the room that I was working in.) It took a min for me to see that she was not talking to me but to Mom. Just then my sis look in the room and seeing me look at her she said. look at what you are doing not me. And why are you putting awesome all over that sleeper? Just put it where you need it!By this time she was yelling at me.Then Mom stared come in the room. What's going on here? I stared to answer but my sister cut me off. And do you know what she said? Will I was just telling (let's call me joy)joy not to put awesome all over the sleeper just where it's needed.Then Mom stared yell at me. WHY THE HELL ARE YOU PUTTING AWESOME OVER THE ALL THE SLEEPER?DON'T DO THAT. ONLY PUT IT WHERE IT'S NEEDED!!! She stopped waiting to hear a Yes Mom. I'm so sorry Mom. I was in a shook. To tell on me with out really know what going on. so then my mom said DO YOU HEAR ME? Then I got out of it and Said yes Mom. Sorry. then she came in too the room. WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT? WHO TOLD YOU THAT YOU COULD DO THAT? Now I see that my sister never really know it was all right for me to put awesomw all over that changing pad. It was most likely just something she did. I stared to say:well mom I'm sorry. I did not know. I could not find that thing the needed awesome so... she cut me off.So you put it all over thinking that you would find what needed it.HOW SIAD TO YOU THAT YOU COULD DO THAT? WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO DO? KILL HER?!! That hurt. I looked at my sister how know look like she know what I was talking about. I wait for her to jump in and say Oh sorry mom. There was this changing pad and i said to joy that she can put awesome all over it. She did not say that. But seeing me look at her wait she look at mom then at me then at the floor. Well i got it good from mom. And you know what. My older sister. The same one that most time was supermean to me was supernice all that day. I could have said some to mom after and she would have been like I'm so sorry. I will talk with your sister.But I did not. what really makes me mad is because I stood up to mom for Naomi just a few days before my brithday. And I had nothing to do with it. I just know that my mom was wrong to I said something. And after that you woud think she'd help me. But she did not. I don't know what to do know. But I know that's on my Mom's list one actup for me. I don't want to get my sister in trouble but I want that off the list at the same time. Help!
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Ok, first of all, hun calm down. I have a 15 year old sister too. Just talk to your mom about it, and tell her that you think it is too stressful for you to be on the list. And that you feel like you keep making mistakes, and you want to be a good daughter, but you don't feel like this is the best way for you to help her out around the house and such.
And I think if your sister is like my sister, and it sounds like she is, then what you need to do is just don't act up. Then everything she does will be more noticable, and she will be accused when she does things wrong.
Next time also you could try telling your mom after she cooled off, what happened and how sorry you are, that might work.
And I know other people skipped your question, but I don't skip unanswered questions.
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