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should i confess?
it was months ago now but ive just realised that ove done something intentionally. i had a party and told my friend a month before but she said she didnt know if she wanted to come. on the day my mum told me to invite her again but i decided i would wait til 7:10 to invite her so she might not bother coming, when the party started at half past. she was looking after her nan as her grandad had died four months ago and when i did ring her it was at 8, later than i thought and her mum got upset and they dont want anything to do with me this guilt is taking over me, she said she wants nothing to do with me but diesnt know i did it intentionally as ive just realised myself, shes haapy now, should i confess or leave her carry on with her life, it was 5 mnths ago?
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You've already posted this question twice already; and from what I've seen you didn't get anyone to help you.
So I'll try.
Let her carry on with her life. It will not do any good. This girl is thinking that you did it by accident, and yet still doesn't want anything to do with you. If she finds out that you did it on purpose, it won't change anything; it'll only make it worse. It's been 5 months, you feeling guilty is normal. Why you would do this to a friend, I dont know. But in my book, you aren't a good friend. I'd get over it, because nothing you can say or do will change it.
Your only human, and you make mistakes. Learn from it, and don't repeat this with future friends.
If you feel like you need to say something to this chick, than atleast apologise. I'm sure if you called her, she would probably just hang up, but can you blame her?
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