Question Posted Wednesday December 14 2011, 9:19 am
hi, we have been together for 2 years and everything is going ok. we live together but as he used to be lot more touchy kissy with me before but now when i go near him, he always says,''he has nothing, nothing''? what the hell is that supposed to mean? i can not understand. i'm getting to be really frustrated by him as he's a stubborn, late 40's and single a father and i'm in my early 30's and i'm making every effort to make this relationhip work. he sometimes seems to be selfish as well. he used to say he will do anything for me but now he has completely changed his mind. i'm tired. guys. help. thanks.
Communication is the key, You stated he is not as affectionate as he once was. You two live together, You are no longer in the beginning of your relationships and you are now sharing responsibilities. As I say, Relationship effort needs to be on both parties not one. If he is no longer interested in making this relationship work out then you already seem to know this is going to end badly. Talk to him, Maybe he is stressed? The winter can have an effect on people in all kinds of ways but you will never know if you don't talk about it. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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