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How do I bring up the "Sex talk" with my parents without them knowing that I already know about sex?
okay so i'm 13 and i already know about sex and stuff but my parents don't know i do and i want to know how to bring it up without asking what it is.
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I'm sure you don't know EVERYTHING. If your parents want to talk to you about sex, than talk to them.
In case they don't, or they think you don't know what is it, which I doubt because you're 13...I'm sure they will understand because kids today use internet and they are so much more informed than kids were before.
xoxo ;)
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As a parent I can tell you it is just about as easy as the way you have written to us. Why mom has not sat down with you yet I do not know. It may be she is waiting for you to come to her or she may feel that the sex education in school is sufficient to answer all your questions.
I suggest you ask mom fro some alone time with her to start. This is something you would both feel more comfortable discussing away from any siblings and your dad for know. You will want to talk with your dad to learn how to fend off boys after talking with mom as well on that subject too. It is always good to get both sides of that issue and dad can give you some good insight to how boys think.
For alone time with mom you can go out to shopping or even the library which is an excellent idea as it is quiet and generally you can find a private space. Then you just tell her you have some knowledge of sex but have questions you feel you need answers to if you are going to stay safe.
I don't have a daughter so the sex talk was a little different for as was when to have it. It started with having respect for young ladies and keeping it in his pants until he was old enough to support a child and the young lady. You can interpret that for your own well being and start there with your mom.
If you are finding the need to have this talk with mom, it is also probably the time to visit a gynecologist, if you have not already seen one, for a proper female examination. If your having your period you should see a gynecologist once a year unless told otherwise by the doctor.
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im 13 as well and i have this talk with my mom all the time basicly you just ask how old you have to be to have sex :) then it goes on i have already had it but they dnt no
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